Xs

I think 2010 has every other couple out there on the edges of their seats just to tie the knot and take that long jump into oblivion! It's got me thinking about all those movies, when just as the bride or groom says I DO, some jealous heart broken ex starts banging on glass mirrors and start screaming their names!


Ex-es! They're always drama. All that talk about mutual friends, mutual break ups, is almost bullshit. The chances are someone loses interest or discovers some nasty habit of yours they just cant stand or decides career comes first and just leaves.They probably move on to bigger better things and in 2 weeks or 2 months are in a new relationship. Then the someone else always always gets left behind.


Drama always exists when exes do. The jealous ex, the heart broken ex, the desperate ex, the egoistic ex, the EX!


No ex is a hundred percent cool i think, when they find out you're with someone else and they're alone. Constant questions will be running through their minds about what's so special about this new heart throb of yours, what went wrong, why cant you just be together. 


Of course if you ever do get over your ex, in the quickest amount of time, i say YAY! But I'm just saying that's really rare, well from what I know at least.  


Why all the drama though? Is it that hard for us to move on? I get it, the sharing, the trust and all those memories, but life's too short, and chances are there's gonna be maybe hundreds or more men/women out there that are everything he/she was and a million things more!


I think most of the time, the easiest thing you can bank on for wanting to get over someone, is that huge ego of yours. Come on, we all have one! Just tap into it and remind yourself how awesome you are and what an incredible loss it is for that other person. You could just click your fingers together, and ba-da-ding the next guy/girl is at your feet begging to take you out for a drink!


I guess for me at least, it's easier to not have much to do with exes, because of all the memories and the awkward moments that get retold/relived whenever you see them. I don't really know when that goes away, or can it ever? 


If you're one of the people that can be the bestest of friends with your ex, have late night dinners with her new boyfriend or his new girlfriend and talk about memories and laugh about it, that's absolutely great!


But if you're not, I think give yourself a week or two to wallow with ice cream, pick yourself up with your new found ego , start defacing their photos, erase his number from your cell phone and get yourself out there for a new better person to come along, cause they always do!